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You Have a Disease. Here’s the Cure.

You Have a Disease. Here’s the Cure.

I have a disease. No, not life threatening, luckily; but one that does hinder my ability to be both productive and well-rounded. And you know what? It’s quite possible that you have it too. Disagree with me? Well sure you do, but admitting you have a problem is the first step!

It’s not like we’re content with monthly publications any longer.

The disease I’m referring to is one that I’ve spoken about numerous times in recent years: the “always on” effect. Particularly as web developers, we’re consumed by media and gadgets. You finish up a day of coding, and how do you prop up your feet to relax? Probably with a visit to Engadget to catch up on the “news.” But who’s to blame you? It’s not like we’re content with monthly publications any longer. Heck, we’re not even content with weekly, or even daily news! You — and by “you,” I mean “I” — probably check in on the site, or one of its siblings (Mashable, TechCrunch, etc.) twice a day. It’s admittedly a waste of time, yet we don’t stop.

At first, in the late nineties, all was well. How amazing that we have access to up-to-the-minute news at all times?

Sure, we had to dial in, and pray that the phone didn’t ring, but, even so, the accessibility of endless information was well worth the effort.

But then, this developing illness became a bit more extreme with the introduction of a new generation of smart phones with non-kill-the-person-sitting-next-to-you-while-waiting-for-the-page-to-load browsers! This introduced a whole new level of availability. Not content to access the web only via a wired desktop computer, we can now do so on the go (some taking the “on the go” idea a bit too far…think Tweeting while driving).

So what’s wrong with reading gadget sites twice a day? Well certainly there’s nothing inherently wrong with doing just that, but it’s rarely “just that.” In fact, it’s a symptom of a much bigger problem: information/media/gadget overload. Combine your daily workload with web browsing, social media and RSS feeds, and you get a lot of eye strain.

We all know that feeling; it’s the evening, and you find that, for the last twenty minutes or so, you’ve been mindlessly browsing the web, accomplishing absolutely nothing. During the course of that twenty minutes, it’s likely that you visited more than one site multiple times! Because hey, the refresh button could reveal all sorts of new information.


Buzz: Social Media

What’s a “viral” video?

I remember the day I was introduced to Facebook — way back in 2003. I think, at that point, the term “social media” had no meaning. Little did I know that, in a few short years, the term would not only exist, but also fuel thousands of jobs in the world, which required “experts” in the field. As I write this, I’m reminded of when I was twenty years old, and was asked by a marketing person at a publishing company if I knew what “viral marketing” meant. “What’s a viral video?” How funny.

Fast forward a few years, and Twitter is now the defacto communication standard for most web professionals, in particular. It’s the perfect medium for psuedo-water-cooler-chatter. But then, once again, something happened to many of us. It became a sort of addiction — at least in the lightest sense of the word. Whether you’ll admit it or not, it’s likely that you know exactly what I’m talking about. And if you don’t, more power to you. Good job.

Take the Test

You’re officially a social media addict if you identity with any of the following actions.

  • Research: You not only have a desktop Twitter client, but you also researched all of the available options before making your choice. (I chose Echofon).
  • Industry Awareness: You were decidedly pissed when Twitter recently announced the changes to their terms and conditions, which limit the availability of third party applications.
  • Efficiency: Your Twitter client also incorporates other social media sites, like Facebook. If you’re going to waste time, you might as well be efficient at it!
  • Updates: You made at least one tweet about the recent Twitter redesign, and are familiar with some of the technologies used to create the site.
  • Options: You’ve installed more than one Twitter client on your mobile phone.
  • Brightness: You turn the brightness on your phone all the way down in movie theaters, because you fully anticipate checking your email at least once during the movie.
  • Always On: Your desktop Twitter client is, more or less, open all day.
  • Chirps: Between push notifications on your phone, and alerts on your desktop and laptop computers, you hear multiple chirps for every unimportant Twitter update.
  • Engagement: You’re reading this article, and have every intention of commenting with your thoughts!
  • TV: You enjoy the show, “Big Bang Theory.” This is the surest dead ringer for an internet addict. :)

Joking aside, if you’ve felt your leg buzzing in a movie theater, and couldn’t keep yourself from checking your phone, you probably have a problem — a first-world problem, nonetheless, but still a problem! So what’s the solution? Disavow all technology, email, and social media? Of course not. But I would argue that it’s time to implement some barriers. Over the last several months, I’ve begun doing just that.


1 — No Phone On Date Night

Rule number one. If you have a drinking problem, don’t drink. Equally true, if you have trouble ignoring push notifications, turn the phone off. My wife-in-training, Allie, and I have a weekly “date night” tradition. I’m sure you and your significant other have something similar. Under no circumstances should the phone be on during these designated hours.

Rule: Turn the phone off, and keep it out of sight for the entire evening. No exceptions — and trust me, you will try to make exceptions. Your spouse can help you with this.


2 — Close the Twitter Client

If you’re similar to myself, your social media app of choice tends to remain open through out the entire day. Of course, that doesn’t mean that you’re actively participating in the feed at all times; in fact, you’ve probably become quite skilled at ignoring the endless new message chirps. Yet, nonetheless, it’s a needless distraction.

Rule: Twitter can be accessed three times a day only. Morning, lunch time, and before you finish up for the day. To some, this may still seem excessive. Why Use Twitter at all? The reason is because it absolutely serves a purpose in the web dev community, if used correctly. Other than these designated times, the app should be closed.


3 –A Full Day Off

Even though most have the weekend off, web developers still tend to work in some fashion on Saturday and Sunday. Some use the free time to work on side projects. Others may use it to catch up on industry news and developments. The reason is simple: we enjoy what we do, and like building stuff! But, this still falls under the information overload umbrella. If you’re not careful, you’ll burn out.

Rule: At the very least, you mustn’t touch the computer for an entire 24-hour period each weekend. No email. No status updates. No power.


4 –Designated RSS Time

It’s intimidating to see how much incredible (and free) content is released every single day. Is your RSS list massive? Probably so! If not, then you’re falling behind the rest of the wolf pack. By no means should you ignore this content, though. Instead, the key is to manage it effectively, and designate specific portions of the week to review the feed.

Rule: Use services like Instapaper or Read it Later to create reading lists. Then, choose 1-3 days each week to filter through all of the information.


5 – Seek Help

All of these “rules” are only effective if they’re followed; and I’ll be the first to tell you that it’s really, really hard. For example, during the process of writing this editorial, I’ve checked my email a few times, and refreshed my Twitter feed a couple as well. The amazing thing is that these sorts of mindless “refresh” button activities have a way of becoming less planned, and more instinctual. Before you even realize what you’re doing, you’ve somehow created a new tab and accessed Gmail.

To combat these tendencies, we can use a variety of desktop tools to limit certain applications/websites/etc. As a Mac user, I’m a big fan of Concentrate.

Rule: Use tools like Concentrate to “help you work and study more productively.”


Conclusion

Before I wrap this editorial in a bow, it’s important for me to note that I’m using the word “addiction” and “disease” in jest. While I’m willing to concede that I’ve wasted too much time in the past pressing the refresh button, that’s the extent of it. When I use these words, they’re meant to be interpreted in the lightest sense possible, and in a manner that’s applicable to most of us. I’m not referring to actual internet addiction, which is a very real thing.

If I can manage to follow these steps, I’ll be a happier person with more free time to spend outdoors, and with my family. And the best part? The phone will be off.

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  • Batfan

    Great advice. I am very guilty of this :P

    I sit at work for 9 hours a day, building and fixing sites. My smartphone on my desk in front of me and Google Reader open in window in the background. I work late, get home, have dinner with the wife and then finish up my Reader feeds before bed.

    Need to make more time to tune it all out :)

  • Marv

    I like to smoke magic cigarettes in the evening. Helps a lot to switch off.

    • Chris

      Hahaha…. guilty.

      • Renan

        Hahahaha, magic cigarrets… nice!

    • DerrickW

      We should start a club :)

    • http://www.cogzidel.com/ Krish

      LOL

      Enjoy smoking!

  • http://blog.no-panic.at Florian Beer

    This article sprung up on Twitter and in my RSS reader!
    Seems I’m suffering from at least 3 or 4 of your “addiction signs” …and now I’m even commenting here :(

  • http://michael.theirwinfamily.net Michael

    I’ve actually been thinking a lot about this recently. Ever since I became more “connected”, I’ve felt like I’m always rushing. It seems like the world is going much faster, and I have to somehow keep up. Fortunately, it isn’t like that (not completely anyways). But, it’s tough to keep the balance. Thanks for the reminder, and for the tips to help overcome it. I’ll definitely be trying these out!

  • Dan Stever

    Crap. Thanks for pointing out my addiction.

    “Your addiction has affected my life negatively in the following ways…”

  • http://twitter.com/jontyy John

    very interesting article. I really have an issue with the amount of stuff I get in my RSS list, hopefully the tools you listed might help out.

    I really do not think that it would be possible for me to do a full 24 hours without touching a computer lol.

    Great article as always Jeff, thanks!

  • http://www.thomasv.nl ThomasV

    Guilty, great article jeffrey. I took full days of in the weekend ;) Because being a webdeveloper doesn’t mean you have to spend al your time behind a computer :P

  • http://www.truethemes.net TrueThemes

    Great article! I admit, I definitely suffer from “always on” syndrome. Well, I just took the first step, admitting I have a problem, now time to follow your suggestions. ;)

    Cheers.

  • Steve

    Hi my name is Steve and im addicted to envato.

    The first step is to say it right?

  • http://andrewburgess.ca Andrew Burgess

    Great article, Jeffrey! I’m guilty as charged.

    I take issue with point 1, in part. I like the idea of just putting your phone in Airplane mode (or something similar), instead of turning it right off. That way, you can use it to enhance your conversation (think sharing notes, links, etc.), but don’t have the distractions. I got this idea from Patrick Rhone’s post on this: http://minimalmac.com/post/3165411533/airplane-mode.

    Or is this just my inner nerd trying to make exceptions?

    PS – loving these editorials; keep ‘em up.

    • http://www.jeffrey-way.com Jeffrey Way
      Author

      I think it’s circumstantial. For me, the whole idea is to get my eyes away from a screen for a period of time.

  • http://cghearn.com cghearn
  • Michael

    I consider myself an IT geek but …..

    1. I do not have a Twitter Account.
    2. If I log into my Facebook account once a month, that is a lot.
    3. I do not have a smart phone or whatever you want to call it. I have a regular cell phone (you know the kind used just to make phone calls) that is used for emergency only. No one even has the number.

    Yet here I am reading Nettuts. My point being that you can be up to date with what is going on and the latest development tools without all of the above mentioned nonsense.

    Just turn it off.

  • Karl

    I do not, have not, and will not utilize Twitter. My RSS list contains just the information that I need to keep me up to date with today’s technological changes and I have been working in this business for 20+ years.

    You state in #2 that Twitter has a useful purpose, but I have yet to find one redeeming quality about it. I find it to be the primary source for “self-important” individuals to ensure somebody knows they are breathing today.

    On the other hand, Jeff — Keep up the EXCELLENT work. You provide such great information on CSS and web development and I, for one, appreciate it.

    • http://ben-carlson.com/ Ben Carlson

      Twitter’s the same as many technologies: it is what you make it to be. You say you use RSS to keep up to date on important information. You could also do that with Twitter. I agree that a large percentage of Twitter usage has very little value, but the same can be said for most things.

    • http://www.jeffrey-way.com Jeffrey Way
      Author

      Karl –

      I’ve found Twitter to be a vital resource for staying connected to the web dev community.

      • Karl

        Jeff, I would greatly appreciate if you could provide me with an example of how it helps you stay connected to the web dev community. If it is a means to converse with them, I have email, IM and a phone… I’d actually love to have someone explain to me exactly how it helps.

    • http://wa3l.com Wael Al-Sallami

      While that’s the seemingly purpose of twitter, I think it’s a much more valuable tool than that, I find it very useful to connect to other developers, have discussions, and learn new things from them.

      Everyone hates self-centered people, for example, I used to follow Melissa Milano for a while, and then I realized that her tweets adds absolutely nothing to my feed, so I unfollowed her, and now I only follow twitter accounts that belong to developers, designers, CEOs, and brands or products I use and like.

      • bill

        How can anyone have a useful discussion with a 140 character limit? Brief discussion sure, but meaningful or useful? Not.

  • http://www.mrnordstrom.com Daniel Nordstrom

    Nice article, thanks.

    Read another article about etiquette when hanging out with other people. The author suggested to consider everything you do on your phone—while talking or hanging out with others—just as if you were making a phone call. For example, starting to check Twitter or Facebook in the middle of a conversation should be considered as rude as just suddenly start making a phone call.

    I find that to be a nice rule of thumb. Of course, some things such as taking a note of something doesn’t really apply but let’s face it; it’s pretty rude to take out your phone and start checking Twitter or your email in the middle of a conversation. It communicates that you are bored.

    • Karl

      Daniel I couldn’t agree with you more. I find it funny that in a world obsessed with “social networking” there is nothing “social” about it. When you are with other people, be with them… I deal with people that will sit during lunch and do nothing but bury their face in their phone and then wonder why you don’t talk to them. Interact with others… The technology is great and by all means, use it. But know when to cut the chord and interface with actual people.

      • http://www.danwellman.co.uk Dan Wellman

        Hey Karl, in answer to your question earlier about how Twitter helps you stay connected to the web dev community – for me Twitter has introduced me to a whole load of people that I otherwise never would have known existed. I have IM and a phone too, but you can’t reach out to new people via those mediums, and if you don’t reach out to new people, how does your circle of friends/community grow? With Twitter you can search for like minded people and get to know them, with IM or phones you can’t just find random people that share the same interests as you :)

      • Damon Sharp

        Karl-

        I completely agree with Dan as well (and am one of his followers). I get tons of great information, tips, freebies for web dev and design, links to tutorials and projects people are working on for training and inspiration, etc., etc. from following like minded people. No, I really could care less about most of what people post on twitter, but then again, if I don’t like it, I just unfollow them. Plus it’s pretty easy to skim through 140 characters rather quickly. I originally started using Twitter because a previous employer needed to get their social networking presence up and running. At the time, my thoughts were very similar to yours at the moment, but once I started using it I realized what a valuable resource it really is.

        I do completely agree with Jeffrey about stepping away from it regularly though. I think I meet everyone of Jeffrey’s “take the test points” above (except for the brightness one…I turn my phone completely off). My wife even bought me seasons 1-3 of Big Bang Theory last Christmas. In my case, I have such a bad “if I dont’ handle it right now, I’ll forget about it” problem, that it’s hard to pull away sometimes.

        And believe me, my wife does remind me!

  • http://jaredeasterday.com Jared

    I definitely have an internet addiction, and it’s because I spend all day at work churning out code, and spend all night trying to learn. I don’t know nearly enough about the technologies I should, and feel that if I’m going to advance my career, I need spend non-work hours learning them.

    My techniques for dealing with this are spending time with my special lady friend, getting exercise, and shooting down helicopters in BFBC2 (does that count?).

    Thanks for taking the time to address quality of life issues like this Jeff.

    Cheers,
    Jared

  • w1sh

    My name is w1sh and I’m addicted to reddit.

  • http://wa3l.com Wael Al-Sallami

    I’ve actually read that other article of yours in which you talk about how endless our learning-curve is, and I’ve given it quite a lot of thinking …. anyways, I got a glimpse at this article, and will be reading it later because I’m working now (lots of thinking, huh?) …. thanks for shedding light on this subject, again!

  • http://www.hayloftdesign.com/ Matt Barnes

    Carving out specific times for RSS feeds has been super helpful for me lately. I think especially if you use Google Reader, there can be an “inbox zero” kind of compulsion that makes you want to see the number of unread items drop to zero. It doesn’t help that that app looks a little like Gmail.

    Realizing that it’s ok for that number to be really big most of the time has also helped me enjoy what I read a lot more.

  • http://www.elimcmakin.com Eli McMakin

    By writing this article, you have added crack to my pipe.

  • http://envato.com Ryan Allen

    I went for a hike the other weekend. I find that’s useful for switching off! Nothing to worry about except that you have enough water in your pack, and that you stay dry when it rains, and that you eat when you set up camp.

    Nothing tastes better than a black cup of tea at the end of a good hard slog with a pack on your back.

    Unless you get heat stroke, then it sucks!

    • http://net.tutsplus.com Jeffrey Way
      Author

      Definitely. Allie and I will take weekend camping or cabin trips a lot. It’s a nice way to get away from everything for a bit…

  • http://www.luke-king.com Luke

    I don’t really use twitter, and I use facebook as mostly a keep in touch with friends and plan events kind of thing. I used to be really bad with checking my RSS feeds but now I don’t even look at them at home. I read my feeds on my android in the morning on the way to work while on the bus. I tell myself if I read them at home I will have less to read in the morning.

    I am guilty of coming home from work, turning on my computer and getting stuck into more personal work however…

    Honestly for me if it wasn’t for my RSS feeds I would waste so much more time on the internet as now I don’t even visit my most viewed websites unless it has something new in my feed. I used to be very guilty of constantly refreshing my feeds however.

    • http://www.luke-king.com Luke

      I also want to point out that I actually want to get into using twitter more. Mostly because at times I feel out of touch with the rest of the web dev community because i’m too stuck into my own work.

  • http://www.wdonline.com/ Jeremy McPeak

    These rules are also good for increasing productivity. I have to turn just about everything off in order to work; otherwise, I’d be distracted every five minutes.

  • hoppster

    Going soft on us, eh Way? Here, take another <a href=”http://dzone.com”>hit&lt/a> and show us what you’ve got.

    - Your REAL friends

    • hoppster

      Dear Editor, Feel free to edit that muck. I would if I could.

  • Jessica

    “Rule: Turn the phone off, and keep it out of site for the entire evening. No exceptions — and trust me, you will try to make exceptions. Your spouse can help you with this.”

    I think you meant sight. Anywho, I definitely have a rule for this. Once I go home for the day, there is *almost* no computer time, and on the weekends too. I would drive myself crazy, and I would get nothing done.

    • http://www.jeffrey-way.com Jeffrey Way
      Author

      It was a play on words.

  • noname

    Because hey, the refresh button could reveal all sorts of new information.

    Shit, man, u’re awesome! =D =D =D

  • http://www.rebatesense.com RebateSense

    I’m beyond guilty of this. Even with a bad headache/neck pain the other day I checked Facebook before I collapsed to bed and the family was like “we have to go see a doctor for this problem than for your headache!”.

  • http://www.12designs.co.uk Pete

    Good article. I actually closed my twitter account the other day and am considering doing the same with Facebook, (not that I use it that much). Even thinking about dumping my smart phone, but still thinking that one through. There seems to be a consensus among a growing number of people that we are way to plugged in and it’s unhealthy on a lot of different levels. There’s a whole real world out there…

  • shitwizard

    Another dead giveaway is when you misspell “sight” as “site.”

    • http://www.jeffrey-way.com Jeffrey Way
      Author

      Or when you’re shooting for a play on words. Nice name, btw.

  • http://www.egydes.com Husien Adel

    thanks jef for useful article, i already suffer from that matter ( social media + rss) addiction and need to apply some rules to be healthy ;) from that disease

  • http://www.giulianoliker.com Giuliano

    I have Twitter account with no twits and Facebook account I visit once a month to delete all request for Poker and Farmville (BTW I never played Farmville ever), but… I visit all major dev, gadget an design websites many times a day. Sometimes I’m on Engadget 5 times a day – I’m gonna miss Josh :(

    My biggest problem is that sometimes when I open magazine my eyes would go and look for a search box in the top right corner. Does this means I’m going mad or I have this disease too… or both?

  • john

    Excellent advices. I am certainly an addict!!!

  • http://littlecrowd.com/ Ferry T.H.

    studies showing that it’s very good to taking away from multiscreen environment. It can relieve stress and foster creativity or at least that’s what I’ve heard. This ‘taking away ‘ thing is was part of 2011 trend predicted by JWT Intelligence. It’s called De-Tech. You can read the slide in >>> 100 Things to Watch in 2011

  • http://praveenc.com/blog Praveen

    Thanks Jeff!! – Always enjoyed reading your articles – spot on!
    Fortunately I did realize my addiction to my “social” interactions a few months back and took a few dramatic measures

    1. I wrote on my wall that that am going to delete my FB account (I had close to 300+ friends) i got around 5 genuine responses asking me to stay on…however after a week I went ahead and deleted my FB account (suspended) … nothing has changed much and life goes on :)

    2. Sold my smart phone and downgraded to an old nokia handset – used primary to make/receive calls..even typing SMS is huge pain .. but by far I think that’s the best decision I made..am still surviving 3 months without those maps and apps..I spend more time talking rather than texting or facebook-ing people..I think talking has a more personal touch

    I still love to read nettuts though but thanks to you guys it’s usually an article a day which is just perfect

    Thanks again for sharing your tips/tricks and concepts on CSS, WordPress and other web dev articles
    You do an excellent job!

    Cheers

  • http://www.gustavstromberg.se/ Gustav

    Wasn’t facebook founded in 2004?

  • http://www.wpvine.com Vishu

    There’s a regular 3 hr power cut during the day where I live, so that’s a full 3 hr. break from the desktop…though I still have my iphone during that time :S

  • http://www.radiouri-online.info/ speedy

    I haven’t read all comments, but the first one has catch my attention. @Batfan: 9 hours and you feel guilty? how about at least 15h for me? Sometimes I do 18h a day. I’m a webdeveloper to.

  • http://vinhdesigns.com vinh

    what a perfect way to end my browsing…for now

  • http://dagrevis.lv/ daGrevis

    AJAX is nice… no need to press F5 all the time. =]]

    P.S. Great article! Really… no comments. ))

    /Another addict/

  • http://www.rickgrossman.com Deborah Lukow

    I must plead guilty because i cannot turn off my mental computer. My husband is all over me to give it a rest. I am doing my best to relax and interact with others outside the industry but it is a work in progress. Thanks for the advice and encouragement.

  • SolidSquid

    Something else worth considering, trim your RSS feeds from time to time to remove feeds you lose interest in. That way you’re just getting the stuff you want and reducing the reading material you’re going through each day

  • Oscar B.

    It is absolutely true. I have some diseases, and the worst of them is Facebook. Today is my Facebook-less day number 1. I’m anxious by now. I realize that I’m addict to it.

    Another thing that I deeply hate is phone on dates. I turn it off, but many times ‘she’ will be answering chats and phone calls. So that ‘girl’ won’t become a ‘girlfriend’ for sure.

    And even nights with friends, I also hate it.

    Now that I read this, I can say it was ‘destiny’ that wants me to change a little bit. I’ll take a whole free day off of computers and Internet.

    Thanks, I’ll do it the rest of this day and tomorrow.

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